Unless there is accountability, the likelihood of overcoming the addiction are slim. This nearly floored me and made me want to puke. Most addicts do not get better until they are caught and confronted and almost forced into making a choice. Plus our sec life has changed. Every boy that came over, even her brothers friends, he would accuse her of sleeping with them.
No apology necessary Desley! I had to relearn how to look on the woman as a whole person and not a sum of her body parts and to not concentrate on sexual attractiveness, but what made them a person. Your confrontation of his sin, in whatever way you approach it, must be the first step to him being honestly convicted about it and knowing what God feels and thinks about his sin. And his irritation when you question him about it is a sign that he is not being honest. But to suggest that all men struggle with porn? Although I had wanted to read her book before confronting my husband on this very issue my insides which were raging would not allow me to wait that long.
They want to be camera-ready. But it hurts those directly involved in it much more than it will ever hurt us. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. He has said and done very hurtful things, but says that I am controlling and abusive. Do you draw a line in the sand?
Here is a link that might be useful for those who have been touched by pedophilia: He was so weird towards her. Look at what Jesus said about adultery. I wanted it to be a heart change, not just something he now had to hide. Porn also sets up a fantasy world that no one can ever live up to. No different than a business in which an employee conspires to allow thieves to come in after hours and loot and vandalize, this sin amounts to unlatching the door of our souls and our family homes and inviting satan to come on in and make himself at home.